Tuesday, May 26, 2009

A shock to the system...

Today I signed on to my wedding website and saw the countdown clock: 17 days until the wedding... Seeing that gave me a minor panic attack. I only have 17 days to figure everything out?!! Eeek!

BUT, to make it all better I got the bags for my wedding favors and I LOVE them!! I know it is such a minor part of the day, but they are perfect. After the disappointments and hassles of the whole music situation, it is nice to have something go my way.

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Pre-wedded Bliss

Perhaps it is the fact that my wedding is only 31 days away, but lately I am just loving life. I mean there are certainly things that suck, like how complicated it is for me to live in the same country as my man, but all things considered I have a really great life.

I have a wonderful fiance, who is swamped with work and still finds time to pray for me, encourage me, write me sweet mushy letters, and set up a place for us to live. What would I do without him? I have an awesome family, which I was once again reminded of as I watched my mom tear up over the sweet Mother's Day letter my Dad wrote her. After 29 years of marriage and some big changes, they still love being together. I have some great friends, who constantly go that extra mile for me and listen patiently to me in all my crazy moments. I've learned so much from them. On top of it all, I have a great God, who has blessed me, provided for me, and been faithful to me. I don't deserve any of it, yet He gives bountifully.

Aside from the mushiness, I am getting more and more excited about the weddings. Yesterday I finally bought a veil. I gave in and got a long one. It is a bit longer than my dress train, completely impractical and totally beautiful. While we were in the store, my mom bought me the cutest parasol. Technically the parasol is for my sister's outdoor wedding, but I think it will be really cute in my wedding pictures too!

I tend to be a little serious and reserved, and letting loose is hard for me to do. But I am going to do my best to let down my hair in the coming weeks and have some fun for a change. I have my whole life to be serious and having fun doesn't have to mean being irresponsible. I just want to enjoy my friends and family, and not worry so much about silly things. We'll see how it goes...

Mother's Day

Yesterday my mother returned from her annual Mother's Day weekend away. Every year she, her sister and her mother celebrate Mother's Day by leaving their families and holing up in the nearest casino hotel for a few days. They gamble, shop, eat, buy things with their comps, and enjoy each others company. Despite the fact this weekend is supposed to be about her, my mother almost always brings us back goodies. Her generosity continues to astound me after all these years.

While she was gone, I spent almost all weekend planting flowers, weeding and maintaining her garden. I do not share my mother's fascination with flowers. And gardening is one of my least favorite activities, particularly in our yard where every two inches you are pulling out dead roots or rocks, and the whole time you are being eaten alive by mosquitoes. Why do people find that relaxing?! At least Mom was thrilled with the results and that was what it was really about.

I will have to post some pictures of the yard because I am pretty proud of what my hard work accomplished.